‘A kiss is the touch or pressing of one’s lips against another person or object. ( Wikipedia -English 2021) And can express the sentiments of love, passion, romance, affection, respect, greeting, friendship even betrayal among other things, depending on the context and culture.’
as the lily among thorns so is my love among the daughters.
#3 of 14 Language of Flowers
In the Victorian Era, flowers were used to express emotions that cannot be spoken. For example, a flower given by the right hand meant a “yes” to a question and if the flower was handed over with the left hand, it meant ” no”.
Flowers, plants and herbs have meaning as well. Blackeye Susan’s means justice and mint means virtue. The rose is a symbol of love but the colour of the rose has different meanings altogether.
White rose – purity, innocence, reverence a new beginning, a fresh start
Red rose – love, I love you. – great for that one true love on Valentine’s day
Deep, dark crimson rose – mourning
Pink rose – grace, happiness, gentleness
Yellow rose – jealousy, infidelity
Orange rose – desire and enthusiasm
Lavender rose – love at first sight
Coral rose – friendship, modesty, sympathy
(The Old Farmer’s Almanac )
A bridal bouquet of red roses and baby’s breath is an collective expression meaning “I love you purely”. Likewise, a flower in the button hole of the groom is an extension of the Medieval tradition of a knight wearing his lady’s colours declaring his love and their relationship.
“As the lily among thorns, so is my love among the daughters” Song of Solomon 2 verse 2
Tristram and Isolde by William John Waterhouse- 1916
In medieval times, acts of chivalry were used by knights to demonstrate commitment, respect, compassion and trust as well as to show noble bravery to a lady when pursuing an honourable relationship with her.
Chivalry is still alive today and can be seen in acts of kindness such as opening a door, pulling out a chair or as simple as returning a warm greeting. Valentine’s Day supports a somewhat chivalrous behaviour by the giving of flowers, chocolate, having a candlelight dinner or showing love and compassion to others in kind words and deeds.
“Thou hast ravished my heart.” – Song of Solomon 4 verse 9a
#1 of 14 Romance
Romance is defined as an emotional attraction towards another person and the courtship behaviours undertaken to express these feelings ( Wikipedia 2021) Romancing someone can be expressed by giving gifts, spending time together or saying special words of affirmation. These could all be examples of courtship, which is a period where a relationship develops. (The Five Love Languages – Gary Chapman)